LO BUENO DE SER CRITICADO

¿Miedo a la crítica?

En la mayoría de las personas este miedo se ubica entre los de primer rango.

¿Por qué?
Porque, instintivamente, como animales gregarios que somos, sentirnos criticados nos hace tener miedo de ser excluidos de la manada. Y, en el reino animal esto significa quedar más expuesto a los depredadores, deambular sin territorio (sin agua ni comida), perder posibilidades de apareamiento… o la muerte misma.

Cuando uno teme a la crítica, entonces, en principio reacciona desde lo más primal que rige nuestra conducta. Así, por largo tiempo, mientras adultece, el animal humano va tratando de adaptarse a los parámetros del sistema (aunque más no sea agrupándose con quienes se oponen al sistema!). Fracciona su identidad, escondiendo partes de sí para no ser exonerado, rechazado, excluido… criticado.

Pero en algunas personas existe una fuerza peculiar que les lleva, -o bien desde siempre, o bien promediando la mitad de la vida-, a, de todos modos,

TOMAR EL RIESGO DE SER DIFERENTES,

aunque esto signifique quedar expuestos a la crítica. Hablo aquí de quienes han decidido convertir su propia vida en un peregrinaje.

Sí: los antiguos le llamaban “Camino” al proceso de consolidar la propia identidad desde lo más esencial de sí (o sea, más allá de los condicionamientos del entorno). Y el problema es que si alguien se convierte en un verdadero individuo, será, por definición, diferente, porque en la periferia todos estamos formateados por el sistema imperante, pero en lo más profundo NO: allí cada uno de nosotros es esencialmente único (una modesta nota musical en la Gran Partitura de la Creación).

Hay quienes al ver al que Camina se sienten propulsados a Caminar también.

Pero hay quienes apedrearán al “raro”, instintivamente, como si tuviera una peste que pudiera “contagiar a la manada”. SU LIBERTAD ASUSTA A QUIEN NO LA EJERCE.

De modo que es bueno saberlo: cualquiera que haya decidido apostar sus días a Caminar, necesita estar preparado para las críticas. Algunas le servirán de espejo: es inteligente escucharlas.

Otras serán una buena prueba para medir cuán comprometido se está con el Camino como para no dejarse desviar por ellas.

Virginia Gawel.

26 comentarios en “LO BUENO DE SER CRITICADO”

  1. Hello, Neat post. There is an issue with your web site in web
    explorer, could check this? IE nonetheless is the market chief and a large portion of folks will miss your magnificent writing due to this problem.

  2. Generally I don’t learn article on blogs, but I would like to say that
    this write-up very pressured me to try and do so! Your writing
    style has been amazed me. Thank you, very nice
    article.

  3. You can certainly see your expertise in the article you write.
    The arena hopes for even more passionate writers like you who
    aren’t afraid to mention how they believe. All the time follow your heart.

  4. I’m not that much of a internet reader to be honest but your blogs really nice, keep it up!
    I’ll go ahead and bookmark your website to come back later on. All
    the best

  5. I’ve learn a few good stuff here. Definitely price bookmarking for revisiting.
    I wonder how so much effort you set to make the sort of magnificent informative site.

  6. Do you mind if I quote a few of your posts as long
    as I provide credit and sources back to your weblog? My blog site is in the exact same
    area of interest as yours and my visitors would
    truly benefit from a lot of the information you provide here.
    Please let me know if this alright with you. Thanks!

  7. Excellent post. Keep writing such kind of info on your site.
    Im really impressed by your blog.
    Hello there, You’ve done an incredible job. I will certainly
    digg it and personally recommend to my friends. I’m confident they’ll be
    benefited from this site.

  8. Good day! Do you use Twitter? I’d like to follow you if that would be ok.
    I’m absolutely enjoying your blog and look forward to new updates.

  9. My brother recommended I might like this web site.
    He was totally right. This post truly made my day. You can not imagine just how much time I had spent
    for this info! Thanks!

  10. This is a really good tip especially to those fresh to the blogosphere.
    Simple but very accurate info… Appreciate your
    sharing this one. A must read article!

  11. I am not sure where you are getting your info, but great topic.
    I needs to spend some time learning much more or understanding more.
    Thanks for fantastic info I was looking for this info for my mission.

  12. An outstanding share! I’ve just forwarded this onto a coworker who had been doing a little homework on this.
    And he in fact bought me lunch due to the fact that I found it
    for him… lol. So let me reword this…. Thanks for the meal!!
    But yeah, thanks for spending some time to discuss this topic here on your site.

  13. Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though you relied
    on the video to make your point. You clearly know what
    youre talking about, why throw away your intelligence on just posting videos to your weblog when you could be giving us
    something informative to read?

  14. It is in reality a great and helpful piece of information. I am glad that you just shared this useful info
    with us. Please keep us up to date like this. Thank you for sharing.

  15. I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here. The sketch is attractive, your authored material stylish. nonetheless, you command get bought an edginess over that you wish be delivering the following. unwell unquestionably come further formerly again as exactly the same nearly very often inside case you shield this increase.

  16. Great – I should certainly pronounce, impressed with your website. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs and related information ended up being truly easy to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it at all. Quite unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or something, website theme . a tones way for your client to communicate. Nice task.

  17. It’s the best time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy. I’ve read this post and if I could I want to suggest you some interesting things or tips. Maybe you could write next articles referring to this article. I desire to read more things about it!

Deja un comentario

Tu dirección de correo electrónico no será publicada. Los campos obligatorios están marcados con *